What you need to know­­

  • Real Sex Isn’t like Porn – Make her feel Sexy
  • Don’t Forget Foreplay and be sensitive to your partner
  • Spanking gets a thumbs up

 

 

“Well that’s not how real sex goes. It’s actually a lot better than that”.

                Pornography is under heavy fire from the press at the minute; research has led scientists to believe that too much can damage your relationships and not just that with a partner. as well as causing long term mental issues such as SADD (Sexual Attention Deficit Disorder) in which the instant gratification of internet porn and constant visual stimulus has led to men becoming bored in bed, impotent  and even unable to climax.

Not forgetting damaging their relationships. Men are seeking adultery as they are no longer satisfied with one sexual partner and once they’re in the bedroom they want to perform like a porn star.

We’ve heard all this before, but have you heard what your partner thinks? Read on and hear what she’s got to say.

She knows your lying

Women aren’t stupid, and they always know when you’re lying. The bad thing is they blame themselves for your masturbating habits, not only being insecure that they don’t satisfy you enough but thinking the women in porn are better than them, ‘perfect women with no wobbly bits and perfect boobs’ and we all know that’s not true. We’re just horny as hell!

So tell the truth and make sure she knows how much you love what she does.

 

Real Sex Isn’t Porn

No woman wants to be treated like a piece of meat but unfortunately the Internet is now where most of us learn about sex. So you end up charging in the bedroom skipping the foreplay and expecting anal right away and it’s all over too soon right? Well that’s not how real sex goes, it’s actually a lot better than that.

Take your time, don’t forget the foreplay and don’t be greedy, if you start to pay attention to what you’re doing and really start to tend to your partners needs you’ll not only enjoy it more but you’ll last longer too,

We’re not telling you to stick to the missionary position and keep your socks on. Just be more graceful, it’s the attitude that’s the problem, as for your Partners Thoughts Role play & Spanking are favourites.

Mix It Up

Don’t Just Replicate what you’ve seen on the internet, women love Variety, just look in their shoe cupboard. The key to great sex is doing what you feel is right at the time, not what you thought about doing while you were at work. For example if she goes to give you a romantic kiss you wouldn’t just stick your tongue down her throat would you? Why should sex be any different?

Sometimes you’ll want to tear each other’s cloths off and get it over within minutes. And sometimes you’ve got a whole evening, so what’s the point in rushing? Don’t be afraid to talk to each other about what you want, neither of you can read minds communication is vital. Still too shy, buy a sex manual and slowly work through, start with what your comfortable with and build you way up as your inspiration rises.

Feeling adventurous? See how far from the bedroom you can get? Bathroom landing living room kitchen garden car… the list goes on.

 

Make Her Feel Sexy

A women’s ability to enjoy sex & or Orgasm rely heavily on two key factors, how sexy she feels and how relaxed she is. And the more sexy she feels the sexier she’ll be for you. Treat her to some lingerie and don’t forget to compliment her, more than once.

Be sexy yourself too. Remember your body language, speak clearly and stand proud. For more refresh yourself with AskMens’  Sexual Body Language

 

If you’re going to see her again, it’s not a one night stand

No matter how clear you think you’ve made it, if you’ve not actually said it. DO! If you’re going to see her again it’s more than likely she’s got more than a one night stand in mind. This isn’t to say she’s wants to marry you and have a baby on the way by spring but Women make emotional connections a lot quicker than men. So if you’re looking for NSA Fun there’re women out there, it’s just probably wise to be clear from the start about what you’re looking for to save a messy moment afterwards.

So who’s looking for a one night stand? Have you ever seen her before, Will you ever see her again? If it’s a double no then there’s your bet. So spare feelings and awkward moments women are famous for never stepping out of the ‘friend zone’ so it’s probably best to go work on your chat up lines. Or better yet trade in your porn and go buy some nice lingerie and a bottle of wine, or beer whatever but tonight just do what feels right.

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